Many of you have asked where things stand with Ana's birthparents signing the termination paperwork. We were told that it would be drafted up within a week or two and that birthmom and dad should sign by the end of September. Well, because DHS's legal department hasn't done their job, nothing has been drafted for Ana's parents to sign which means that we are at a stand still. I just don't understand! This is such an easy case to close and move on with and they can't find the time to draft a letter for parents to sign saying that they WANT to terminate???? Isn't this what every DHS worker hopes for when they know that parents can't care for their child and won't be reunited with them?
What's super frustrating is that we as foster parents have NO say in how things progress and can't even make a phone call asking for an update on the paperwork. We have absolutely NO rights when it comes to this little girl we have loved and cared for over these past 18 months. Thankfully we have amazing caseworkers but still! I want that phone call that says that paperwork is done and ready to be signed so that we can start our 30 day count down.
I will continue to lay this at the Throne because that's all I can do knowing that God's timing and plan for this little one are perfect.....
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It's SO frustrating being a glorified babysitter in the eyes of the courts :-( I will pray that *someone* gets their act together. Exodus 14:14 - The Lord will fight for you; you need only be still.
ReplyDeleteCan't imagine how frustrating this is for you, but I have no doubt that soon you will have EVERY say in what happens with her! She is so precious and such a part of your family (OUR family!) and we have no doubt the Lord knows every step that has to be taken and has already laid it out...the Throne is exactly where to go, and I am right there next to you daily. Love you so dearly.
ReplyDeleteI just caught up on your blog. Unbelievable, Sara! Praying things start moving soon!
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